Can You Attract a Specific Person With The Law of Attraction
Is it possible to use the law of attraction to attract a specific person and make them fall in love with you? Is there a way to influence someone else to feel things for you, just like you feel for them?
There’s this person you have been in love with secretly for a while, or you two are close friends and you wish the other side wanted more than that.
So you turn to the law of attraction to see if there’s any chance to practice it somehow to attract who you perceive to be the love of your life.
The law of attraction is a physical law in which you manifest to your life people, opportunities, and circumstances that are congruent with the energy you offer to the Universe.
This natural determinist law is based on the principle of like attracts like. The interesting this is that being next to someone else makes you more of that person as time goes by.
Check out the video below that shows you how the same colors are “choosing” the closeness of one another based on a similar frequency.
The explanation of this amazing phenomenon is this:
- The different color of the quartz balls determines their frequency.
- Objects with identical frequencies are attracted to one another and tend to move in space identically.
- Therefore, when given the option to spread randomly, balls with the same color gathering together.
According to physics law, everything in the Universe has a specific vibration. This vibration is comprised of the atom, nucleus, and electrons that move around it and create a frequency.
So if the same frequencies are finding each other’s paths that is the physical explanation to what we see in the video above.
How To Apply The Law of Attraction To Attract A Specific Person
As you can see, frequencies that are the same find each other without any effort, they cross paths smoothly.
But what if you naturally don’t share the same energy as the person you want?
Luckily, our brain is capable of aligning with the energy or the vibration of the thing we want, and we can do that by focus.
You can actually help yourself to align with the frequency of a specific situation or the person you’re in love with by focusing on what you want.
You can use the law of attraction to attract someone you love by focusing on that person – both mentally and emotionally.
But that will not guarantee that this will work, or that person will want you back for two reasons:
1. You send mixed messages to the Universe – you focus on what you want, but at the same time you’re also focusing on what you don’t want. For example – the fear you won’t be together, jealousy and etc. You can read more about how to focus right, here.
Another explanation can be found here – if you get this, you will manifest anything you want.
2. You might be trying to influence someone else’s choices and preferences through visualization, and that is completely impossible and even immoral.
But leaving judgment aside, it’s undoable to make someone else want you – you can only shift your energy alone by changing your focus.
Sync Your Brain To Recruit The Law of Attraction
See, the human brain is an immense transmitter of energy. The vibrations we emit spread throughout the Universe and are not weakening by distance, unlike broadcasting machines that can be blocked by walls and distance.
We have the ability to set the frequency of the brain by managing our thoughts and emotions. But we need to do it consistently – to build momentum.
In addition, we can’t contradict it by offering vibrations that are not in sync with the person we want.
If you’re focusing on thoughts like “too bad we’re not together” or if you’re often sad or depressed you can’t be together with that specific person.
The law of attraction manages the same energies. If you can’t keep your energy clear and sharp for a while, or if you keep having doubts, fears, or being disappointed it hasn’t happened yet- it just won’t work.
In other words, stop looking at the current condition of reality and give your attention to what could be.
The law of attraction is an objective law and it reacts to the signals you often send.
Manifest The Best Relationship For You
I personally believe that asking “how can I get my ex back or how do I attract a specific person to my life” is asking the wrong question.
What if your life with that person would be miserable –would you still want them?
Many times, we are locked in our own fantasy that is completely detached from reality.
That person you want may be absolutely wrong for you, or not give you what you really need.
What we think we want and what we truly want – are two different things.
What if, instead of directing all your energy to imagine you and that specific person together, you’d actually invest this time to explore your needs? This will help you harness the law of attraction much more effectively.
Explore with yourself – what is it that you REALLY need in a loving relationship?
To be heard
To be seen
Ease and comfort
I believe that directing your attention to your true needs and visualize how these will make you feel and start zooming in on them – is the right move. Then, you will attract the RIGHT love into your life, rather than the specific person who you think is right for you.