Overcome Fear of Commitment

Deos This Sound Familiar To You?

You just met someone amazing, and it feels as if you’ve known each other forever. You feel comfortable together. You don’t need to pretend, wear a mask, or make an effort to be extra entertaining.

Your communication simply flows; there are no embarrassing or awkward moments. The sex is amazing. You can’t believe that it is finally happening – you found someone who actually fits you.

A month goes by… then another week or two… and that confident “This Is It!” feeling you’ve had at the beginning begins to dissipate. Instead, you are filled with doubts and questions about your future together.

You’ve already started to develop feelings towards this person who burst into your life like a storm, but you are afraid to feel such intimacy deep down.

Suddenly you are terrified by the thought of your relationship becoming official.

You Convince Yourself That Ending The Relationship Was The Right Thing To Do

You are not yet aware of the fear of commitment dominating you.

So you come up with excuses for your newfound doubts by pinpointing things that annoy you (“It’s disgusting she lets the dishes sit in the sit throughout the night!” or “I can’t stand he doesn’t use punctuations in text messages.”)

The excuses bubble up inside you, so you decide to end things. You comfort yourself, thinking, “we were not meant for each other. It would have ended sooner or later anyway.”

Once again, you find yourself single, alone… convincing yourself you’ve made the right decision.

After all, it can be scary to admit that your choices are motivated by fear of commitment. It is difficult to realize that the problem lies in you, not them. You sigh in relief and tell yourself you have simply not yet found the ‘One.’

Look, I am not saying that couples should stay together at all costs. In many cases, the connection is not there, the energy is not flowing, or the physical attraction barely exists.

Let’s admit it – most dates are bound to fail not because true compatibility is hard to find but because we think we know what we want in a partner, even though we have no clue.

So, when is the decision to break up a response to real incompatibility issues, and when is it a response to your fear of commitment and intimacy?

The Answers Are In Your Brain

The vast majority of psychologists believe that the way you were raised shapes your personality and the subconscious paradigms that guide you.

This approach has been backed by research over and over again.

This doesn’t mean you can’t change, but you will not know what parts in you to change until you expose the actors playing in the background of your mind.

You will wander around in circles until then, repeating the same mistakes.

You will continue to fear committing to an intimate relationship without knowing it.

Meanwhile, you will continue to make up new excuses, telling yourself the same old stories.

In other words, you think you know yourself. However, in reality, you live on autopilot and are unaware of the true motivations and the hidden patterns that drive you.

What Does “Commitment” Mean To You?

When you think of being with another person for the long run, do you feel excited? Happy? Free?

Or the exact opposite – just the thought of it makes you want to run away?

Ask yourself what is a relationship to you – do you believe it will limit your freedom? Take away your independence and leave you suffocated?

Well, it can… there are countless toxic relationships out there.

But there are also healthy relationships out there. In healthy relationships, both partners empower each other to grow and build their own inner world.

In healthy relationships, you will be able to communicate your needs clearly and maturely. You won’t need to be passive-aggressive or feel like you’re doing something wrong when sharing the things you need.

In healthy relationships, both partners are heard and seen.

In this type of relationship, both partners know themselves. They have a strong sense of self and can voice their needs effectively. And when that happens, the only thing that can come out of it is expansion rather than degeneration.

Erik Erikson defined intimacy as the ability to forge close emotional connections. According to his doctrine, a prerequisite for the ability to develop intimacy is having a strong, unified self-identity.

True intimacy with another person is not possible if a person has no sense of self, because such a person has no “self” to share with a potential partner.

Change the Story You Feed Yourself about Committed Relationships

Sure, you can still hold on to the current conditioning and “protect” yourself from the threat of devoting yourself to another human being.

But are you truly protecting yourself? What is it all worth if you carry yourself out of fear? What is it all worth if you don’t experience vulnerability and being carried away into the full spectrum of sharing your life with someone else?

See, the irony is that what you think keeps you safe keeps you stuck.

This recording will help you scatter the fog hanging over your internal paradigm and help you to eliminate it.

Then, as you repeatedly expose your mind to it, and as time passes, you will be able to replace this negative wiring with new positive beliefs that will enable you to build a healthy, warm, and loving long-term relationship.

Suddenly, you’ll perceive the idea of committing to someone else as something you’d like to experience. Then, when that moment arrives, you’ll get to enjoy it! You still might have some resistance, but your new mindset will elevate your awareness of this old programming, that’s rapidly losing its grip on you.

Before you even realize it, you’ll move forward and deepen your relationship with the person your heart chooses. And for the first time, it will actually feel good.

Download now and get rid of the unnecessary fear of commitment.