There are two types of self esteem that influence your level of self confidence.
Type A: basic self esteem – it means that the experience of feeling valuable is not related to the success or failure you’ve been faced with – it’s more of an “I’m just fine being me, I deserve to be loved no matter what happened, happens or will happen.”
It’s realizing that you’re valuable and worthy just the way you are regardless of what you’ve done in your life. This type says that the fact you exist in this world means everything. People with high self confidence deeply identify with this type of self esteem. People with low self esteem mostly don’t hold this view.
Type B: acquired self esteem – this type is built in due time as a result of your self development, growing up, the way you manage yourself in this world and facing different challenges. Here’s the important key here: people who suffer from low confidence and people that hold high confidence both identify with this type.
The only difference is the beliefs and the paradigms they hold and carry.
Why is it important to distinguish
between those two types?
It’s very simple: Because when you realize that no matter how many failures you’ve been through, you need to realize that you are valuable. You can start to feel this way.
You can continue to develop and evolve in different aspects and manifest your talents, but regardless, as a living creature on this planet, you are valuable.
It’s interesting to see that many people who have experienced different kind of success still have low self confidence, because their type A self esteem is weak or doesn’t even exist. It can also be related to the negative beliefs they hold: “I must be perfect”, “It’s not good enough”, “the more I grow, the more difficult things become.”
If you now comprehend the distinction between these two kinds, you can treat all of your life difficulties from the perspective that everything is okay with you, “I’m just fine as I am now”, and out of this mindset you can cope better with the challenges in your life.
You will realize that you might not have learned certain things, and maybe you didn’t develop certain skills, but it’s all available for you whenever you choose to.
Another crucial aspect I’ve mentioned earlier is the thoughts and beliefs you carry within you. People with high self esteem hold positive and empowering paradigms about themselves and the world, unlike people with low self esteem. When you really deeply believe you can do anything you desire, when you deeply believe you have potential and capability, the carrier (=self confidence) will bring out your true abilities and you will succeed more easily.
Your life experiences will be richer, more colorful, and more joyful. Changing limiting beliefs about yourself is completely doable. Subliminal affirmations are an excellent way of going through this process.The first step is to notice the limiting beliefs you have about yourself. The second step is to question and examine them: “is it true?” “what is the reason it’s not true?” “if I didn’t carry this belief, how would my life be any different?” Then, try to find an opposite affirmative belief to replace it.
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