After almost 10 years of financial independence, I can say that I’ve made it. I’ve managed to live in real abundance.
I feel like sharing my insights with you, my choices and the roads I took, so you can expand and grow in your own life as well.
So what brings abundance?
1. Understand the energy of money
The energy of money is love. Money is love. How come?
In an ideal reality, we do what we love to do: writing, singing, cooking, creating, teaching, programming, etc.
Everyone has a special talent to create something valuable that resonates with his/her passions.
As you do something inspired by your passion and love, you’re like a torch that radiates light. You share your love with others and, in return, you get rewarded. Money is a physical response to the light and love you spread.
I truly love creating subliminal programs. I enjoy researching each topic, searching for the right affirmations that can help counter the most common negative beliefs.
I enjoy writing them down, editing them, choosing appropriate and relaxing music, matching the right vibrational frequencies for every specific subject, and then recording the whole program.
I also really take pleasure in writing these valuable insights to you, because I know you’re going to benefit from it, and, consequently, your life will improve.
Money is never my primary motive. Rather, I focus on communicating the positive values I was blessed with and share with those who practice personal development and choose to enhance their lives.
So when you understand that money is simply an expression of love, it’s so much easier to enjoy it. So do what you love and don’t compromise on it.
2. Abundance always flows forward
Abundance is like a river. When water flows in the river, the mud drifts up from the bottom and the river expands its width and depth.
Abundance acts in the same way. As you allow abundance to flow in your experience, it will grow and grow. The purpose of the river is to constantly flow.
Therefore, if you focus only on accumulating money and excessively saving it, that won’t bring you true abundance, because there’s no flow. The abundance gets stuck. In order to acquire money, you need to let it flow from you and through you.
I like to save money. I keep enough savings on hand to cover my basic expenses for 6 months, just in case. The rest is invested in other channels of income.
But my passion for saving doesn’t stem from a feeling of lack, such as “Oh, I must save so I won’t go broke.” That’s not the case.
My motive for saving does not resonate with fear or neediness. It comes from a state of relaxed decision to be responsible.
I also love to spend money on things that resonate with me. I love spas, coffee shops, cocktails, ski resorts, hair salons, and beach hotels. Cars were never my thing, though… but I still own them.
However, I maintain a sense of balance. If I love something, I’ll buy it. And not only will I buy it, but I’ll also ENJOY the purchase without feeling bad or guilty about it.
But I’ll also be reasonable. I won’t spend all my money on things that will drain my bank account. The key is to treat your finances like an intersection or a crossroads: allow the flow, and don’t create heavy traffic.
3. Words and thoughts about money
You already know the power words and thoughts have. Actually, thoughts have more power than words. Words are just a vehicle to convey the thoughts.
So when you say things like “I don’t have any money,” or “I can’t afford it,” there’s a thought behind those words that says “I live in scarcity”, “There isn’t enough”.
The next time you go to Ashley furniture to buy a living room set, don’t tell the salesperson “I love it, but I can’t afford it.” Yes, you CAN afford it! However, you CHOOSE to pick something else that incongruent with your current budget, and that can be and feel equally good.
4. Keep some money visible in your life
Here’s a nice trick that will keep your abundance energy high and won’t take any effort.
I always like to keep a $100 bill in my wallet. When I see this bill, it reminds me that there’s always money flowing, that I have the money right now and always.
Also, try not to have debt. Debt keeps you trapped in the mindset and energy of lack and scarcity. It lowers your mood and cripples you from the inside.
So do whatever you can to make sure your energetic and financial balance is not negative. Consult with a professional, read what experts say, educate yourself about ways to end debt. Do it with ease and not with inner pressure.
5. Reality reflects who you are
Remember that what you have is a reflection of who you are: your beliefs, patterns, conditioning, and definitions.
You have exactly what you’re supposed to have according to the way you’re programmed. Rich people always have money because their brain is designed this way.
Yes, I know you’ve got plenty of strong desires. Your vortex goodie bag is full of abundance. But you’re not there yet. Emotionally you still cannot contain a massive flow of abundance.
Resistance is blocking your path like clouds block sunlight. The sun is always there, above those clouds, but it has no way to pass through their thickness and light your day.
When I was flat broke, with no hope or prospects for a better situation, I always blamed others. I was jealous of the wealthy and felt that life wasn’t fair.
But let me tell you something: Life is fair. You get exactly what you believe in.
Thankfully, I was evolved enough to question my brain wiring and explore the loser mindset I had at that time.
After I figured out my damaging limiting subconscious beliefs, I looked for ways to shift them, so my reality could finally change forever.
Subliminal messages have been and always will be my preferred way to reshape my neural pathways. Nothing beats them. Take my word for it.
6. Don’t do things that go against your conscience
Always be aligned with your values. Don’t let greediness interfere with what you stand for.
Money is tempting. It’s tempting your ego and opens the door to greediness. Listen to your intuition and what feels right.
If you receive an offer that doesn’t make you feel good, listen to what your gut tells you and don’t accept it.
I always get requests for custom subliminals. Every session costs $147. I decline about 20% of the requests I receive because they don’t sit well with my conscience.
For example, people ask me to create subliminal recordings to make a specific person fall in love with them. I know that won’t work. Subliminal messages don’t work like that.
Subliminals are supposed to focus on YOU and your negative paradigms and not on other people. Actually, it goes deeper than that, but I won’t discuss that here.
So I just don’t do it. At the end of the day, it’s a lot of money that I refuse to accept.
But since I know money is energy, I also know that it will continuously flow to me in so many other ways, and I always get to stay true to myself and be happy about it.
7. Everything is possible, and there are countless gifts in the world
I have found great houses for investment in amazing locations at a cost that was waaayyy lower than the market price.
Why? Because I believed it was possible, that houses like that were out there, and that I deserved it.
Many people tend to look for what’s familiar to them, or what they think they can find. So when things look too good to be true, they’re suspicious and they rule them out immediately. The gifts that the Universe send you raise fear in many because they’re not used to it.
This way of thinking perpetuates a mentality focused on the lack of abundance. So instead of fearing wonderful opportunities that seem too good to be true, don’t knock them – explore them. Come with an open mind and see if there’s a true potential there.
You can come by many things for free, or for a very low price, if you believe that you deserve them and just accept them with gratitude.
8. Deal with your fear
Most problems with money come from deep-rooted fears:
fear of not having enough, fear you will have too much, fear you will fail, fear others will become jealous of you, and so much more…
I cannot emphasize enough that fear is the root of all limitations. Fear can make you be needy and clingy. It can prevent you from setting free your amazing potential.
You are so gifted and blessed with unique talents. But fear causes you to keep your greatness within. Fear makes you NOT see the greatness you’ve got there.
I know that fear has stopped me so many times when it came time to take action. I didn’t believe that my actions would bring me the success I wanted.
Find out what you fear. Dare to see the truth behind it. And then face your fears by questioning them, finding empowering alternatives, and gradually, releasing them from your system (did I mention that subliminal messages can do that?! :)), read self-help books like Loving What Is by Byron Katie, meditate and practice emotional healing.
Here’s a special subliminal session I’ve recorded that is dedicated to overcoming fear. It’s super powerful, so I encourage you to give it a try when you’re ready to make real progress. You can find it on my channel or download the unprocessed HQ original MP3 file here
Take small steps each day to challenge yourself and, if need be, get professional help.
To wrap things up:
Your mind definitions create your physical world. Your emotional and mental state is the cause of your results in the material world.
If you don’t have enough money, deep down you believe you don’t deserve it, or that you’re not good enough. If you feel weak, poor and miserable, it’s because this is your dominant energy. You are conditioned to feel this way.
Your neurons in the brain parts that are responsible for processing feelings are wired to keep you in the cycle of suffering.
Don’t fall into the trap of “If I have money, I will feel better.”
I thought that, too, and it led me to more depression, anxiety, and hopelessness.
Money and material possessions will not make you happy and energetic. Be happy and content FIRST and then, from that point only, manifest the money. Emotional manifestation always comes first.
Abundance is all around you all the time. You don’t need to struggle to get it or chase it or be needy about it. Like a tree doesn’t have to strive to get sun and water to grow, neither do you.
Face the fears that close in on you, explore yourself, your self-sabotaging patterns, your negative emotions, and thoughts, and be in alignment with your positive goals.
I invite you to check out how I changed my subconscious paradigms and turned from flat broke into a successful entrepreneur who attracts money, abundance, and love without any excessive efforts.