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Be Assertive

Assertive Personality – the thin line between assaulting and folding

  • Know when to stand up for yourself and when to keep quiet
  • Express yourself proportionally in any situation
  • Listen openly to views of others and respect their opinions
  • Express appreciation for what others are doing for you
  • Admit your mistakes and learn from them
  • Put yourself first without feeling selfish
  • Help others if they need, not at your expense
  • Be true to yourself, your needs and values, without hurting or degrading others

Assertive personality – get the respect you always wanted. This program will help you to be heard by others, get the attention you deserve and find it easy to express your opinions. Start now!

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by Kris on Be Assertive
I love this session!

The assertiveness meditation is really working for me. I listen with headphones only, as it didn’t have much effect on me without headphones. I highly recommend this to anyone who wants to be more confident and authentic. And not less important, read this article again and again and know the meaning of assertiveness. For me, once I capture the idea and really internalize it, the change occurs. Thank you, Edith. I don’t give up on myself anymore. I don’t deprive myself from [the chance to] express my opinions and feelings. I do it with respect with the right people. I do it clearly. I speak slowly and make sure to be heard, unlike before when I talked fast so I wouldn’t take up people’s time. Those days are over. I’m so excited to keep on developing my confidence muscles.

by Jamal on Be Assertive

Wow, being more assertive liberates me from my own chains! I was always afraid that if I stood up for myself and said what’s on my mind, people would reject me. So instead, I avoided being myself, and actually, I rejected myself, and that’s way more painful than others’ rejection. Thank you for creating this meditation for assertiveness, it’s exactly what I needed. It’s been two months since I started listening to this and, boy, I’m experiencing amazing results. I feel happier and less depressed because I’m keeping it real. I’m honest with myself and others and I’m just being me. There’s nothing more liberating than that. Thank you, Vortex, you’re awesome.

by Kesha on Be Assertive

Lack of assertiveness is something I had dealt with since I was a child. I didn’t even know I wasn’t assertive; I thought I was just a shy person. Reading this article made me realize that I didn’t have an assertive personality and I always wanted to please others to be loved, but that has brought me only the opposite results – I wasn’t appreciated and people used to walk over me. The meditation for assertiveness changed my whole thinking. It’s so clear to me now that I only need to follow my truth and values, and if others don’t accept it, that’s not my problem. Applying this new thinking is easier than I thought. People now look at me differently; they respect me and treat me with love. I get exactly what I want only because I stay true to myself and keep my boundaries. Thank you so much!

How can you tell if you possess an assertive personality

Let’s explore it with a few questions.

Are you tired of giving up your true needs and desires just to please others? Are you trapped inside your own prison and preventing yourself from expressing your authentic self? Are you a pushover?

Every time you hide who you are and your values just to make others like you, you are, in fact, losing yourself. This self-distance creates heavy feelings of frustration, bitterness, self-disappointment, lowered self-esteem, and, in extreme cases, self-hate.

When we meet people with assertive personality, we can tell that they are assertive by the way they carry themselves. It is a bit tricky to know how to define assertiveness and how it comes to action in daily life.

So before we discover what we need to do to gain an assertive personality, let’s first understand what it means to be assertive.

What does it mean to be assertive

The base of assertiveness is the respect I obtain for my needs, feelings, and values and my search for paths to express them.

It is easy to understand assertiveness by observing the opposite of it: fear to be seen or expressed, hiding your being, apologizing for your existence; fear of sharing opinions when they contradict others’ opinions; manipulating, trying to fit in and please others while betraying your true self.

An assertive personality is not militant and aggressive but is simply standing up for myself while respecting myself and others in all humane encounters. It is a refusal to fake something I’m not, just to be lovable.

An assertive person doesn’t need to fake anything, because he/she knows they’re enough just as they are. They are OK just the way they are and don’t need to change themselves to make others valid them. An assertive person knows his/her needs are VALID.

When you have an assertive personality, you are living authentically. You respect your beliefs and act on them while remaining flexible and wise in different situations. (If an armed person is robbing you, for example, you don’t have to tell him what you think of them.)

A healthy assertive personality is about the context. An assertive person who keeps his/her boundaries will behave differently at a workplace and when playing with a child.

Distinguishing this difference is not sacrificing your authenticity; it’s about acknowledging your different coloring of personality and read the map of reality correctly.

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Assertiveness sometimes is expressed by giving a compliment to someone who deserves it, and sometimes is expressed by a polite silence that indicates disagreement.

At your workplace, for instance, it’s not always possible to speak your heart, and it’s not even necessary. Prioritize your goals – “do I really want to tell the supervisor he’s mistaking here, or do I want to keep my job”? It’s important that you know what you think and stay true to your core values.

The characteristics of an assertive personality

An assertive personality consists of three main features: honesty, directness, and mutual respect. It is true both for personal and professional traits. Assertive people think in terms of “what can we do to make this work and to push this forward?” An assertive person will show respect for others, even when they have different mentalities. It doesn’t mean they have to agree on it, but to accept and respect each other.

An assertive person has high integrity, empathy, charisma, inner peace and pleasant calmness. Assertive people are usually not the loud ones who make the most noise. They don’t need this attention to feel worthy. They already feel this way.

An assertive personality is also about having the ability to maneuver between different communication channels, looking for “win-win” solutions and not making important decisions when the conditions are not ideal (for example – under pressure, or when angry).

What if you haven’t learned the required skills to become an assertive person?

 

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If you don’t possess an assertive personality, most chances you are convinced that you either born like this or not. But there’s nothing further from the truth. Leading research reveals that assertiveness is a complex of acquired features that you can actually develop successfully.

Stuck with old settings

If you struggle with lack of assertiveness, you are trapped in old conditioning. It means that your brain absorbed limiting beliefs during your upbringing (things your parents and grownups said or did directly and indirectly), and now you’re carrying this baggage on your back, and it’s not even yours.

Programming such as, “I’m not good enough as I am,” “It is not safe for me to be seen and to express myself”; “It is my job to make people happy”; “I need other’s love to survive,” and so on.

An assertive personality can be acquired, but as long as your unconscious is filled with sabotaging patterns like those above, it will take a while until you apply the assertive skills naturally and authentically.

How can you reset your settings, erase the limiting paradigms and assimilate new ones that support a healthy sense-of-self?

Program yourself to build an assertive personality

There are several ways to do it, but the most efficient one is by dealing directly with the root – the unconscious. Subliminal messaging can do that for you.

This is a special formula I developed that make the commands go around your awareness and reach the level where any change can occur – your unconscious.

This unique method has helped tens of thousands of users worldwide shift and enhance their lives, and it can do the same for you.

Those are hidden affirmations that your consciousness cannot grasp; in fact, they don’t trigger any resistance whatsoever.

Nothing holds you back

When you don’t resist new ideas and beliefs, there is nothing that can stop them from becoming the new you. After a short time listening to this program repetitively, the healing suggestions can physically rewire your neural connections.

This is not just another regular meditation for relaxation, but a life-changing tool that has been scientifically proven numerous times.

It has been proven, time after time, that this special technology has helped people overcome alcohol addictions, reduce anxiety and depression (and even eliminate them completely), lose weight, establish a healthy immune system, release traumas and painful memories, improve sleep quality and much more!

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There is no reason to keep hiding behind your own shadow. It is a waste to try making others like you. If they do, they’re going to like the mask you wear, not who you really are. Is that even worth it? On the contrary, being genuine is highly appreciated. As you are tuned into your authentic self,  people will just be drawn to you without you having to try so hard to make it happen.

And those who won’t like the real you – that’s OK too. You CAN live without their love. You CAN thrive without their approval. You are the ONLY one who has the authority to validate yourself.

Being assertive is easier than it seems

This groundbreaking program can make it easier for you feel comfortable being assertive, without justifying yourself.

You will take charge when needed, even in situations of uncertainty. It will be easier for you to deal with situations of discomfort at the workplace, and you will be able to bridge conflicts effectively.

You will feel comfortable in your own skin and sense an inner peace when you express your opinions. Others’ disagreements will not arouse fear or rejection within you because you will be free of the toxic belief of “I need others to like me to survive”. Others will acknowledge that and appreciate it about you.

The hypnotic suggestions will help you value yourself; you will recognize your self-worth and will not tend to get hurt easily by others. Developing a rock-solid assertive personality will improve your life significantly in all areas: as a person, at work, in friendships, and in your love life.

Vibrations for assertiveness

The brainwave technology that is used here is Binaural Beats and Isochronic Tones.

The carrier frequency is 360 hz– related to emotional balance, healing and sense of joy.

This session also has Theta – Delta waves – 3.9 Hz which is related to enhance inner awareness; trance state (increases the receptiveness to the suggestions); regeneration and healing, dealing with unsociable behavior.

For a period of time of 4 weeks to 90 days, listen daily before sleep with headphones. After that period of time, listen when needed.

Download now and help yourself become the assertive person you always wanted to be.

The ‘Assertive Personality’ affirmations:

I’m an assertive person when it is needed
I express my thoughts and opinions freely while respecting others
I’m committed to my personal needs and express them when necessary
I use assertiveness in every field in life
Voicing my opinions comes easily to me
Balancing between sharing my thoughts and remaining silent is natural for me
Standing up for myself when needed feels natural and simple
I have a right to be in this world and to express myself
I have a right to claim my space and to speak loudly when the situation arises
I let go of the need to please others
I help others at my own convenience when I can and want to
I release the need to get approval from others
I have a say and express it when it feels right
I balance between being myself and acting by society’s rules
I feel free to express myself

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by Kris on Be Assertive
I love this session!

The assertiveness meditation is really working for me. I listen with headphones only, as it didn’t have much effect on me without headphones. I highly recommend this to anyone who wants to be more confident and authentic. And not less important, read this article again and again and know the meaning of assertiveness. For me, once I capture the idea and really internalize it, the change occurs. Thank you, Edith. I don’t give up on myself anymore. I don’t deprive myself from [the chance to] express my opinions and feelings. I do it with respect with the right people. I do it clearly. I speak slowly and make sure to be heard, unlike before when I talked fast so I wouldn’t take up people’s time. Those days are over. I’m so excited to keep on developing my confidence muscles.

by Jamal on Be Assertive

Wow, being more assertive liberates me from my own chains! I was always afraid that if I stood up for myself and said what’s on my mind, people would reject me. So instead, I avoided being myself, and actually, I rejected myself, and that’s way more painful than others’ rejection. Thank you for creating this meditation for assertiveness, it’s exactly what I needed. It’s been two months since I started listening to this and, boy, I’m experiencing amazing results. I feel happier and less depressed because I’m keeping it real. I’m honest with myself and others and I’m just being me. There’s nothing more liberating than that. Thank you, Vortex, you’re awesome.

by Kesha on Be Assertive

Lack of assertiveness is something I had dealt with since I was a child. I didn’t even know I wasn’t assertive; I thought I was just a shy person. Reading this article made me realize that I didn’t have an assertive personality and I always wanted to please others to be loved, but that has brought me only the opposite results – I wasn’t appreciated and people used to walk over me. The meditation for assertiveness changed my whole thinking. It’s so clear to me now that I only need to follow my truth and values, and if others don’t accept it, that’s not my problem. Applying this new thinking is easier than I thought. People now look at me differently; they respect me and treat me with love. I get exactly what I want only because I stay true to myself and keep my boundaries. Thank you so much!

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by Kris on Be Assertive
I love this session!

The assertiveness meditation is really working for me. I listen with headphones only, as it didn’t have much effect on me without headphones. I highly recommend this to anyone who wants to be more confident and authentic. And not less important, read this article again and again and know the meaning of assertiveness. For me, once I capture the idea and really internalize it, the change occurs. Thank you, Edith. I don’t give up on myself anymore. I don’t deprive myself from [the chance to] express my opinions and feelings. I do it with respect with the right people. I do it clearly. I speak slowly and make sure to be heard, unlike before when I talked fast so I wouldn’t take up people’s time. Those days are over. I’m so excited to keep on developing my confidence muscles.

by Jamal on Be Assertive

Wow, being more assertive liberates me from my own chains! I was always afraid that if I stood up for myself and said what’s on my mind, people would reject me. So instead, I avoided being myself, and actually, I rejected myself, and that’s way more painful than others’ rejection. Thank you for creating this meditation for assertiveness, it’s exactly what I needed. It’s been two months since I started listening to this and, boy, I’m experiencing amazing results. I feel happier and less depressed because I’m keeping it real. I’m honest with myself and others and I’m just being me. There’s nothing more liberating than that. Thank you, Vortex, you’re awesome.

by Kesha on Be Assertive

Lack of assertiveness is something I had dealt with since I was a child. I didn’t even know I wasn’t assertive; I thought I was just a shy person. Reading this article made me realize that I didn’t have an assertive personality and I always wanted to please others to be loved, but that has brought me only the opposite results – I wasn’t appreciated and people used to walk over me. The meditation for assertiveness changed my whole thinking. It’s so clear to me now that I only need to follow my truth and values, and if others don’t accept it, that’s not my problem. Applying this new thinking is easier than I thought. People now look at me differently; they respect me and treat me with love. I get exactly what I want only because I stay true to myself and keep my boundaries. Thank you so much!

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