Don’t get me wrong, feeling guilty a little bit every now and then is good for the soul and a strong sign that you are not a sociopath or a narcissist.
However, if you walk around with a self-imposed burden on the shoulders, unable to shake the feeling of guilt from your mind, then you have an unhealthy pattern.
But before we talk about how you can stop feeling guilty all the time, it is important we address a few questions like What is guilt? Where does guilt come from? Why do I always feel guilty? Read more ›
It’s time to stop chasing people who don’t want you. It’s time to stop obsessing about people who are not willing to create space for you in their life.
You know what it’s like: you see this person and they are everything you ever wanted in a partner or friend – or at least they appear to be so. The only problem is they don’t feel the same way about you.
So you chase them and try to prove yourself to them. If they would just hear you out or give you a chance, they would see how great a friend you are or they would fall in love with you. Read more ›
Boy, did I hate myself! This was before I decided to make a change and began my self-development journey.
And at the time, it made a lot of sense too! I struggled with low self-esteem issues up until my early 20s. It affected every area of my life – the way I carried myself, the way I talked about myself, the way I was always ready to bend over to please others at the expense of myself.
I went around with my shoulders slumped and kept my head down. I didn’t want to cause any trouble. Not me! I was willing to let anybody walk all over me, and I hated myself for it. Read more ›
Hello, my name is Edith, and I am a recovered people pleaser.
Back then I would put everybody’s needs ahead of my own; my family, my neighbors, my friends, my coworkers—even total strangers! And you would think that spending all my life trying to please people would make me feel all good inside, but it did not.
The truth is I felt terrible inside.
I felt used and taken for granted. Every time I pushed what I really wanted to please people, I felt powerless and unable to stand up for myself.
Yep, that was me. I was so scared of confrontation, I would go to any lengths to avoid it. Whenever I felt someone took advantage of me, rather than confront them, I would just phase away; lose contact with them.
After many years of abandoning my own needs, I eventually fell into depression. I knew I wanted to stop the cycle—I tried, but it seemed I was doomed to stay a people pleaser forever. Read more ›
A few years ago, everybody got excited about a new buzz phrase that was supposed to be “life-changing”: Fake it till you make it! You may have heard of this phrase or maybe even used it, hoping to manifest your ideal self.
Well, news flash: it doesn’t work… and there is a simple reason why.
Fake it till you make it revolves around creating an image for the outside world that is NOT you. It forces you to pretend to become someone that is different from whom you really are.
Fake it till you make it involves presenting false behaviors which are not in alignment with who you really are.
Instead of motivating yourself from a standpoint of “What kind of person do I want to be?” you motivate yourself from a profoundly limiting standpoint of “How do THEY perceive me?” Read more ›
“Who are you?”, “What is your identity?”, and “Why do you like what you like?” Ask these questions to a random stranger on the street, and you are likely to draw many blanks (and a few odd stares!). But these are just some of the questions pertaining to your sense of self.
Yes, you — remember you? You have a self. And it’s time you two got reintroduced.
You see, so many of us go through life on autopilot, distracted by running errands, commitments, and technology, that we never stop to answer the most important questions of all which are those which belong to our very selves.
Having a strong sense of self means understanding the fact that you are more than just biology—you have wants, needs, feelings, motivations, fears, opinions, preferences, and desires, all of which have been molded over the years, and all of which matter.
Are you tired of daydreaming about your goals to no avail? Maybe you’ve been trying to manifest your desire for a while now and have nothing to show for your efforts.
Today I will share with you one major component you may have overlooked that will 10x your ability to manifest your ideal reality. After applying this method, things will start moving so fast you won’t believe it’s actually happening!
Everybody has one of those days when so many things tend to go wrong, and life makes you want to pull your hair out or run screaming to the nearest bar.
But what if I told you that these everyday annoyances were actually a good thing…?
Don’t start shaking your head just yet.
I’m not talking about big problems like being broke or failing to get the promotion you thought you were a shoe-in for or breaking up with the love of your life (though the method I’m about to share with you is super powerful when it comes to the big problems as well.)
Everyday annoyances; that’s what I’m talking about: a driver cuts you in line, a cyclist takes the whole lane and forces you to drive at their pace, a rude cashier at your local grocers who seems to have forgotten how to smile.
What if I told you these small everyday problems which we take personally, were actually pointers to parts of our inner selves which we are oblivious to?
Stay with me and I will explain how these issues we deal with every day are actually GOLDEN NUGGETS which are a mirror to our inner programming.
Listen, I get it: you want a change in your life and you want it yesterday. You’re tired of the same old painful patterns that make up the story of your life: toxic relationships, lonely weekends, soul-crushing debt, paralyzing self-doubt.
If only you could get one magic bullet that would make it all go away in an instant, with no effort required on your part, then that would be awesome. Right?
Too many times in the past, I have received countless emails from all over the world from people who make requests that go like this –
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