How To Let Go of Your Ex Fast – The ‘A-Ha’ Moment
Whether you just broke up or you separated ways a long time ago, you don’t know how to let go of your ex.
You thought this person was the love of your life. But your dreams are down the drain and you just can’t believe it’s over.
And even though the relationship had ended, the fixation on this person has just started.
You feel like this breakup took a part of your body as if your life will never be the same. Letting go of your ex seems impossible.
Suddenly the songs on the radio get a different meaning and the world looks completely vague. Sort of colorless.
You feel like nothing is worth anything anymore if you are no longer together, and you let yourself sink into deeper hopelessness.
My obsession with my ex
Trust me, I get it. My breakup was one of the most difficult experiences I had in recent years.
For months after we broke up, my mind had still raced with the same ruminating thoughts that were trying to make sense of what happened.
“If only I would do things differently, then we would still be together” had flashed in my head every second.
The truth is that it was quite exhausting, all this pointless, intruding chatter. Let alone, it made the ex recovery so much harder as it wasn’t supporting my lame attempts to make progress. The incessant “I miss us together” looping wouldn’t stop, and I just let it hijacking my brain.
After a long period of time of thinking compulsively about what we had… after all the “what if things turned out differently” thoughts and all kinds of imaginary scenarios that ran in my mind, I understood something that helped tremendously to forget about my ex and finally let that love story go.
How a simple alternative concept has stopped my suffering
It finally came to me while I was running on the treadmill at the gym, and I remember that day as if it was yesterday because that realization has started a serious shift in my life.
This epiphany fundamentally changed my view of this breakup and helped me let go. Not only did my pain almost ceased right away, but the constant wondering about our relationship made me happy rather than sad.
I know that as soon as you read these lines over and over again and fully internalize this A-Ha moment I’m about to share with you, it can create a tremendous relief of your misery as well! (Only if you’re ready to let go that special someone, fast).
And it goes like this –
I realized that all the longing I felt was not necessarily toward my partner.
I simply missed the feelings this relationship sparked in me.
What feelings am I referring to?
Safety, passion, love, stability, caring.
All the time I was suffering, I gave my partner the credit for these feelings, but they actually belong to me!
And the fact that we’re not together anymore, does not mean I cannot feel it again, even now, before I’ve found a new relationship.
And that’s why we’re so devastated and afraid to let go after a breakup!
Because we believe that as soon as the ex we loved is no longer present in our lives, our feelings disappear along with the termination of the relationship.
We’re convinced that if we move past the ex, we’ll also let go of these awesome feelings and say goodbye to them for good.
But there is no greater mistake than that. Let me explain.
The truth about the love we feel
The relationship did not create these emotions. They were always there, hidden within us. That someone only revived them.
So as soon as you shatter the false perception of-
“I can experience love and security only if someone else loves me”, you’ll see what an instant relief you’ll feel.
This is just one limiting belief out of many that keep us in the circle of pain! These blockages keep us stuck in all life areas – refusing to get over past relationships, difficulties fidging career or business opportunities. And until we won’t shift our inner talk, we’ll continue to experience the same lessons.
The truth is, we can feel love, safety, security and happiness on our own. No one else has the sole responsibility for our range of emotions, because this rainbow exists within us.
It may take time for this new point of view to seep into you.
And until that happens, I invite you to check out these two recordings. These can help you soothe your broken heart and leave your that romantic period behind you- whether you have broken up, separated or divorced:
Don’t listen to these recordings if you are not willing yet to release attachment to the ex and move on. It’s also not meant for you if you just want to speed up the recovery. See, we must process our pain and negativity this separation caused. There’s no way around it.
The programs are designed for you only if sufficient time has passed by and you seem ready to move forward, let go of the needy cycle, and finally mend the pieces of your soul.
Are you ready to heal your broken heart, feel worthy of love, and finally attract healthy and nurturing relationships? Find out how I did it.